Family Law · Portland, Oregon

The next chapter of your family deserves a gentle hand.

Divorce, custody, and adoption are turning points — not battles. We resolve most matters without a courtroom, and protect you fiercely when court is the right path.

Confidential · Evening appointments available · Sliding-scale mediation

Our Approach

Calm is a legal strategy.

High-conflict litigation drains the estate you're dividing and the family you're protecting. We start from settlement strength — and we're always trial-ready if respect isn't returned.

Mediation first

Nearly 8 in 10 of our cases resolve through mediation or collaborative process — faster, more private, and dramatically less costly than court.

Children at the center

Custody plans built around your children's routines, schools, and relationships — not around leverage. Their stability is non-negotiable.

Trial-ready always

Gentle doesn't mean soft. Every file is prepared as if it will see a judge, so you negotiate from strength — and never from fear.

Your Attorneys

Two decades of steady hands.

Small by design. You work directly with a partner — never handed off, never a file number.

Nora Haven

Founding Partner · Mediator

A former court-appointed custody evaluator, Nora has mediated over 600 family transitions. Parents on both sides request her by name — the rarest compliment in this work.

J.D., Lewis & Clark Law · Oregon Mediation Association · Collaborative Divorce Professionals

Elena Sage

Partner · Litigation

When a case must be tried, Elena tries it. Fifteen years of family trial work, with particular depth in complex asset division and interstate custody disputes.

J.D., University of Oregon · OSB Family Law Section · Super Lawyers, Family Law

Client Stories

Heard, protected, at peace.

Divorce felt like drowning until our first meeting. Nora laid out a path, and every step happened exactly as she said it would.

Rachel M. — Divorce & custody

Opposing counsel wanted a war. Elena stayed calm, prepared everything, and the judge saw the difference. My daughters live with me today.

David K. — Custody trial

They finalized our stepparent adoption a week before the holidays. There were tears in the courtroom — the good kind.

The Okonkwo family — Adoption

What to Expect

A clear path, from day one.

A private conversation

Tell us your situation in a confidential consultation. We listen first, then map your options — including ones that don't involve us.

A strategy you choose

Mediation, collaboration, or litigation — you'll understand the tradeoffs, timelines, and realistic costs of each before deciding.

Steady advocacy

We handle the filings, deadlines, and negotiations. You get plain-language updates and a response within one business day, always.

A settled future

Agreements built to last — and we remain your firm for modifications as children grow and circumstances change.

Common Questions

Asked in almost every first meeting.

Usually not. Most Oregon divorces resolve by agreement — through negotiation, mediation, or collaborative process — and are finalized on paper. We design our approach to keep you out of a courtroom unless it genuinely serves you.

Oregon courts decide custody based on the best interests of the child — factors like each parent's relationship with the child, stability, and willingness to support the other parent's role. A thoughtful parenting plan you build together almost always beats one a judge builds for you.

It depends almost entirely on conflict level. Mediated matters often resolve for a small fraction of litigation cost. At your consultation we'll give you a realistic range for your situation — and we flat-fee uncontested matters.

No — but it's time to get advice before you sign or agree to anything. An early consultation protects your options; most of what feels urgent in week one can be calmly undone or improved with counsel.

Yes — that's the best case. We'll paper your agreement correctly, catch the issues couples commonly miss (retirement division, tax timing, future modifications), and finalize it efficiently, often on a flat fee.

Begin Gently

Talk to us before you decide anything.

One conversation can replace weeks of worry. Consultations are confidential and unhurried — bring your questions.

Office1130 NW Lovejoy Street, Suite 400, Portland, OR 97209
HoursMon–Fri 8:30–5:30 · Evening appointments available

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